We sacrificed for years to build our new home. My mother-in-law thought she could decide who lived where. Then my husband showed her the receipts.

My in laws, Rosalind and Alistair, had never contributed a single dollar to our dream.

They were never under any legal or moral obligation to do so, and we had certainly never asked them for money. What hurt deeply was that every time Christopher genuinely needed family support, his mother offered the exact same indifferent response.