My husband thought his announcement would leave me helpless. Instead, I quietly gathered my children and our bags. Then I told him to call his attorney.

That was the moment I understood the evening had been designed long before either of them crossed the doorway.

My name is Claire Bennett, and I had been married to Ryan Bennett for nine years. Our six-year-old son, Ethan, sat beside me at the walnut dining table, while our four-year-old daughter, Sophie, was complaining that the chicken on her plate had been cut into pieces that were somehow “too square.”