My husband gave me $200 to plan a party for 30 guests. He told me to figure out the rest myself. So this time, I did exactly that.

Gwen stared at the screen without shedding a single tear or raising her voice in frustration. Instead, she opened a delivery app on her phone and searched for multi-packs of instant ramen cups.

Since the day they got married, Gwen had served as the uncredited event planner for the entire family, handling everything from holiday dinners and baby showers to medical deliveries and family visits. Every single expense had always been met with Brandon’s reassuring promise that he would reimburse her in a little while, but that short while had stretched into eight long years.