My lawyer begged me not to give my husband everything. But I calmly said, “Let him have it.” There was a reason I didn’t fight.

Our son, Ethan, was eight years old and upstairs working on homework. I remember noticing how deliberately Daniel avoided saying Ethan’s name, as if calling him “the son” made it easier to hand him over. My chest tightened, but I didn’t cry. I had learned long ago that Daniel mistook tears for weakness.