My son was too ashamed to ask me for help. Then I discovered what he and his twins were going through. I told him, “This ends today.”

Melissa actually looked pleased.

“Seeking treatment for stress is not evidence that you were dangerous. Properly presented, it may demonstrate that you recognized pressure and sought help responsibly.”

Over the following weeks, I rented Daniel a modest three-bedroom apartment in Evanston, close enough to the boys’ existing routines that nobody could reasonably claim he was trying to relocate them.