PART 1
The first time my husband suggested surrogacy, I was cutting his birthday cake.
His boss, Everett, wanted a child. He was gay, unmarried, and looking for a woman willing to carry a baby for him.
My husband had apparently mentioned how much I’d loved being pregnant with our daughter.
“Wait, you’ve been talking about my pregnancies with your boss?”
“Only good things.” He slipped his arms around my waist. “He said we’re lucky to have Daisy and such a happy family.”
I remember leaning into his embrace, feeling reassured.
A week later, he brought it up again.
Everett had invited us to dinner. My husband said it was simply an opportunity to discuss things, with no expectation that I’d agree.
When I hesitated, he took my hand.
“He’s considering me for regional director. I’m not saying helping him would guarantee anything, but it could show him how committed and reliable I am.”
Finances had caused plenty of tension in our marriage. Our mortgage had gone up, and the expensive car my husband claimed he needed for work drained nearly everything we managed to save.
“Why don’t we sell the car first?”
He immediately released my hand.
“I already feel like I’m failing you and Daisy. Do you have to keep pointing it out?”
Before I knew it, I was the one comforting him.
From then on, he talked less about Everett becoming a father and more about how the promotion would improve our lives.
He promised he could stop working weekends, take us on a proper vacation, and finally afford a new washing machine instead of the broken one we had to restart halfway through each load.
“You keep saying you miss having me around,” he reminded me. “I’m trying to find a way to spend more time with my family.”
I still loved my husband.
And I missed the marriage we’d once had.
Eventually, I agreed.
We went through medical examinations, counseling appointments, and all the required paperwork. Whenever I was asked whether anyone was pressuring me, I said no.
My husband repeatedly told me the decision belonged to me alone.
I wanted that to be true.
But every time I thought about backing out, he’d sit quietly at the kitchen table, staring at our overdue bills until I felt guilty.
The second embryo transfer worked.
When the pregnancy was confirmed, my husband burst into tears.
Then his behavior changed.
He became so attentive that I began hoping this arrangement might somehow repair our relationship.
He carried the groceries, came with me to medical visits, and rested his hand on my growing stomach while we watched television.
One evening, he felt the baby kick.
He smiled at me in a way I hadn’t seen in years.
I placed my hand over his.
“I’ve missed this version of you,” I told him softly.
By the time I reached twenty-four weeks, I’d started believing we were finding our way back to each other.
Then one night, I woke up thirsty.
My husband’s side of the bed was empty.
I noticed a light downstairs and heard his voice coming from the kitchen.
I walked toward the doorway, planning to get some water.
Then I heard him laugh.
“She really thinks this whole thing is about my promotion.”
I stopped with my hand against the doorframe.
He paused to hear the other person’s response.
“No, she doesn’t suspect a thing. She’s actually been much happier lately.”
I stood barefoot in the hallway.
The refrigerator hummed behind his voice as he listened to whoever was on the phone.
When he spoke again, his voice sounded unusually tender.
“I want that too. But we have to wait until she gives birth. She still has no idea who this baby is actually supposed to be for.”
I instinctively pressed my palm against my belly.
The baby moved beneath my hand.
Then my husband said something so terrible that I covered my mouth in horror.
PART 2
“Once she’s delivered, I’m leaving her, Everett. And then we can finally raise our child together.”
I held on to the doorframe.
The baby I was carrying wasn’t mine. On paper, it wasn’t my husband’s either. It belonged to his boss.
And the man who’d spent months telling me this was about a promotion had been planning a future with the intended father the whole time.
I wish I could say I’d seen it coming. I hadn’t. I was a tired woman who loved her husband and wanted him back, and the man I loved knew that about me better than anyone alive.
The floorboard near the stairs creaked under my weight. I knew every creaky board in that hallway after nine years in the house, and I stepped around the rest as I backed away. I slipped into the little downstairs bathroom and shut the door without turning on the light. I gripped the cold edge of the sink until the dizziness passed.
Brandon and Everett.
I repeated it in my head like a word in a foreign language.
I thought of his hand on my stomach on the couch, the first real kick, and that big, slow, amazed smile I’d taken for a man finding his way back to me. He hadn’t been smiling because he was coming home. He’d been imagining the family he would build without me, and I was just the place it was growing.
When I finally came out, his voice was still murmuring behind the kitchen door. I went upstairs.
Daisy’s door was cracked open, the way it always was. She was curled on her side, hair across her face, holding her stuffed rabbit, Captain, under her chin. I sat on the hallway floor with my back against the wall and counted the weeks to the due date.
Sixteen.
Brandon had been counting them too, for a very different reason.
Eventually I got up, lay down on the far edge of our bed, and pulled the blanket to my chin. Later I heard him climb the stairs, brush his teeth, and slide in beside me. He reached across in the dark and found my hand.
I kept my breathing slow and pretended to be asleep. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
In the morning he kissed my forehead at the counter.
“Sleep okay?”
“Not really.”
“Baby keeping you up? I’ll grab that Thai place you like on the way home.”
He flipped his car keys up and caught them, the same gesture I’d watched a thousand times. Suddenly it looked like a stranger doing it. I said “okay,” and he left.
I didn’t want to confront him yet. If I did, he would deny it, or cry, and somehow by the end I’d be the one apologizing. I needed to understand what I had signed first.
After I dropped Daisy at school, I sat in the library parking lot and called Rhonda Pace, the independent attorney who had reviewed my surrogacy agreement. I told her everything. She didn’t interrupt.
“Marnie, I’m so sorry,” she said at last. “I won’t promise you a loophole, and I won’t guess about the contract until I’ve read it against the law in this state. But some things I can tell you now. Your medical decisions are yours. Not Everett’s, not your husband’s. And you need a family-law attorney today. Not for the surrogacy. For your marriage and your daughter.”
By lunch I had an appointment. I spent my break at the kitchen table rereading all forty-one pages. The first time, I’d skimmed the insurance and payment sections and trusted that someone would flag anything wrong. This time I read every line. Every signature looked like a decision I’d made to protect a marriage Brandon had already left in his mind.
My hands shook with anger. But anger can’t undo a signature. Understanding it was the next best thing.
