Forty days was already too much. Then she asked for another month—and I finally set a boundary.

My five-year-old exposed the plot against me between bites of macaroni and cheese.

My sister-in-law, Dana Whitmore, and her two children had been staying in our Raleigh home rent-free for forty days when she leaned back at the dinner table and announced, “We’ll need to stay another month.”

I had covered groceries, school transportation, and even her overdue phone bill, believing her situation was temporary.