My husband said we had to cut back for Christmas. Then he spent thousands on his own family. I knew something had to change.

The day I lost my job, my husband didn’t ask if I was okay.

He looked across the kitchen island and said, “Your parents aren’t getting Christmas gifts this year,” as casually as if he were canceling a subscription.

I stared at Ryan, still wearing the gray sweater I’d had on when HR ended my eight-year career in corporate compliance over a video call.