A routine traffic stop suddenly became something serious. The officer quietly warned me not to go home. Then he handed me a note.

PART 1 — THE TRAFFIC STOP THAT BROKE MY MARRIAGE OPEN
My wife Sarah and I were driving along Route 35 on a Saturday afternoon when flashing red and blue lights appeared behind us. She had been doing seventy-eight in a sixty-five while we were heading to her mother’s house in Millbrook, so neither of us thought much of it when she pulled our Honda onto the shoulder and handed the state trooper her license and registration.