I believed my husband was simply helping my sister with her house. Then I noticed his story wasn’t adding up. When I followed him one Friday, I finally understood why.

My husband said he was fixing my sister Karen’s sink every Friday for 3 years. It was a standing arrangement we both just accepted. Every week, he would load his heavy canvas tool bag into the trunk of his sedan, kiss my cheek on his way out the door, and spend his entire Friday evening across town.