My sister laughed because they had “forgotten” my seat. Then Mom actually told me to leave. I quietly made my decision.

“Oops, we forgot your seat,” my sister Lauren giggled.

For a second, I thought she was joking.

We were inside the private dining room at Bellamy House, an upscale restaurant outside Boston, where thirty relatives had gathered for my mother’s sixtieth birthday.

Every chair around the long table had a gold place card.