My family thought my car was theirs to give away. Thirty minutes later, they regretted it.

I had been at my younger sister Madison’s wedding for exactly forty-three minutes when my father chose to give away the most valuable thing I had ever purchased.

The reception was taking place at a restored vineyard outside Charlottesville, Virginia.

I was twenty-nine, three years into managing my own logistics company, and I had finally treated myself to a brand-new black Lexus RX after spending years behind the wheel of a battered Honda Civic. I had covered the down payment myself and signed every financing document under my own name.