My ex-husband thought he had taken everything from me. My son and I started again with almost nothing. He had no idea what I would do next.

Then he took me to family court and tried to use our poverty against me.

His attorney stood before the judge holding a photograph of my eight-year-old son, Noah, wearing a faded gray T-shirt with dark stains across the front.

“She can’t even provide clean clothes,” the lawyer said. “This child deserves stability, Your Honor. His mother is clearly incapable of providing it.”