My ex-husband left my son and me struggling to start over. I quietly rebuilt our lives one day at a time. He never expected what came next.

Then he took me to family court and tried to use our poverty against me.

His attorney stood before the judge holding a photograph of my eight-year-old son, Noah, wearing a faded gray T-shirt with dark stains across the front.

“She can’t even provide clean clothes,” the lawyer said. “This child deserves stability, Your Honor. His mother is clearly incapable of providing it.”